I first saw him in my dance class ,he came to learn dance with
his friend .He was quite a matured man with a very good structure .I must say,
he was a pathetic dancer but a very good learner .Slowly steadily i was getting
attracted towards him , but i was not accepting this thing .He made me laugh
with his silly jokes and funny dance steps.Days passed ,then came winter break
for 10 days..we used to chat daily ,some general stuff and all. After break we
continued chatting and calling each other ,once he called me late night ,when
he was at a party of his friend and told me that he was missing me. I didn’t
know what to say at that time.Next day he proposed me on phone and told me he
really liked me and wanted to marry me. As he didn’t want to be in a hanky panky
relationship and he was very serious for me. For me it was very early to accept
everything so i told him for some time to think over it. No doubt i really
liked him but for marriage i was not ready to give any commitment.
After some days ,he was very upset because of some problems at
his home ,that day he told me about some of his family problems that i think no
other guy would tell to anyone.I was very impressed with his honesty and next
day i accepted his proposal for marriage.So we were a couple.He was very caring
and a loving boyfriend .Months passed, and i shifted to some other place in my
city.but those days which i spent with him were awesome .He is really a best
boyfriend ,a best friend and a best teacher (he used to teach me some good
communication skills and guide me in the fields i was lacking )in this world
Once ,(june 14,i still remeber that date)my mom came to know about our
relationship ,that day was the life changing day for us.Because he was not from
our caste so things became very complicated and also in my family my parents
really believe in astrology and match – making system .and our horoscopes were
not matching. I was not allowed to talk to him. A emotional black mail from my
parents continued (hum mar jaenge to kar lena shadi!!!! hamari kya izzat rah
jaegi society me kisi dusri jaat me ladki de di!!! ) i know how i survived
those days that was the pathetic time i have ever seen in my life. But i was
sure about my decision and i refused to back out. My family really loved me so
they agreed to talk to my boyfriend .
The way my brother talked to him and and pressurized him ,was
not appropriate , but still that person endured everything just because of me.
After one moth we convinced our parents to meet anyhow. During that meeting his
mother was not looking very happy because of our unmatched horoscopes.But he
told me that his mother was little apprehensive about our future because of
horoscopes but he was sure everything would be fine. My family wanted that we
should get married soon without any delay but his mother again gave a reason
for late marriage .she told us that an astrologer told them that marriage
should happen after June next year.My parents however agreed,but in November
end his mother called my mom that she went to another astrologer for some
remedy and that person told her that this marriage could cause death to anyone
of us (either me or my boyfriend).So she refused for our marriage. That night
,my boyfriend had a bitter argument with his parents and told them he would
never marry in his whole life. He is really upset because of his parents .he
can’t leave his family and can’t even afford to lose me. He is stuck somewhere
between me and his family.I can’t see him like this.
Things are getting worst because my parents are searching
another good match for me .His sister is getting married soon ,he has some
responsibilities in his life. i know he is totally shattered Now guy !!!that is
my story …i don’t want to keep quite because i know its a real life not like
our bollywood stories where some miracle would happen and everything gonna be
okay!!!! I want you guys to help me ..i am making a documentary about marriage
experiences of some real life couples for our parents.if you know some one who
had a marriage with unmatched horoscope and if they are happy just tell me .or
anyone who after this matched horoscope faced a bad marriage. or any astrologer
who believe that if two persons really love each other then horoscope should
not be considered..i just want a 2 min video from your side nothing else.
please guys i really need some videos for my documentary asap.because we don’t
have much time to convince our parents. anyone who is interested reply me.
thank you sonali
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